
One of the blogs that I read My Little Life has been having interesting Valentine's Day topics on her blog. One of the recent topics was Engagement Stories, so I thought I would share ours.
I have to back about 6 months from the actual "pop the question day". It was late February; I was almost 24 years old and still living with my parents. Up until that point I had been pretty OK living with my parents, but now having been dating Dough Boy for 6 months I was starting to feel like it was time for my own space. Dough Boy and I were talking about it one evening and he said "I really don't want you living alone, why don't you move in with me." I think I was kind of stunned at first. The first thing that popped into my mind was his roommate would have to move out; I wasn't doing the "Three's Company" thing. He said, fine. I told him I needed to think about it and discuss it with my parents. I was terrified to talk to them about it! We had never really discussed living together before marriage. I had no idea what their reaction would be. To my surprise they were OK with it, the only thing my mother cautioned me about was to make it very clear to him that I wanted to get married and that living together would not be a permanent arrangement. So I told him that and he said OK.
Fast forward about 5 months...July, I moved in that month (took a while for the roomy to find a place, etc.) our first anniversary was coming up in Mid-August. Somehow we got talking about the arrangement and I reminded him this wasn't permanent; I wanted a ring on my finger someday. He suggested we go shopping for one! So, we looked around at several stores and finally found one.
As we were discussing our first anniversary and how we wanted to celebrate he suggested we go to the jewelry store, buy the ring, and go to dinner. Needless to say I was beyond excited! We get to the jewelry store and they pull out the ring (little did I know he'd contacted them and had a larger diamond put in the center!). This is a small jewelry store and they size the rings on sight in about an hour! So, we went to dinner in the mall while it was being sized. We went and picked it up, me expecting to wear it home was a bit surprised when he said to put it in a box and bag! I was now bummed!
We are driving home, the ring is in the back seat of the car, he won't let me take it out and look at it, won't let me wear it, nothing. I told him "You have no idea how hard this is for me. It's something every girls dreams about. What if I told gave you a brand new car and wouldn't let you drive it, that's what this is like for me!" He never gave in. We get home and I go stomping up the stairs to our bedroom. There on top of the TV cabinet is a dozen roses, balloon, and card. I turn around and he's running down the hallway and slides into the entryway on one knee and proposes! He had planned it all along, but didn't expect me to go tearing up the stairs!
He's such a sweetie! He had actually planned on trying to wait until September as we had a vacation planned and he thought it would be fun to propose then, but he didn't think HE could wait that long!
What's your engagement story?